Couples Therapy
Relationship is not just holding hands while you understand each other.
It’s also having lots of misunderstandings, and still not leaving each other’s hands.
How did we get here?
Constantly frustrated, feeling misunderstood, and distant in your relationship. It feels like all you do is disagree and argue.
The continual bickering over even the smallest things is so aggravating.
Or perhaps, it’s a bigger issue that you just can’t see eye-to-eye on at all.
Sometimes you just remain silent, so it doesn’t cause another huge blow up.
And so…
The disconnection and isolation from each other persist.
You’re both going through the motions of the day, just existing. The loneliness is intense.
When you do communicate, it always seems to go downhill quickly.
The same old words repeat… “You don’t listen to me.” “You never hear what I say.” “You never understand.”
The cycle continues and nothing ever gets resolved.
No one ever intends for this to happen.
Let’s face it; it’s easy to lose sight of our relationships and, frankly, not that unusual. Often the busyness of life just sort of creeps in little by little over the years.
Focusing on children, the family, the job… and seems like a million more things that demand your time and energy.
Like a plant, after a while the relationship starts to wilt from lack of care.
It’s time to tend to your relationship!
The good news… you can bring life back by starting to nurture your relationship.
Sometimes, it just needs some focused attention that it has been lacking for things to improve.
Other times, there may be deeper wounds of hurt, lack of trust, even betrayal.
Whether you just need some skills to enhance your communication or you need to work through longer term issues…
There is always hope.
Many couples struggle, and these problems are more common than you might think.
Don’t continue down the path of heartache and eventual separation or divorce. It’s never too late to get help and turn things around.
Take the first step toward moving your relationship down a brighter path for your future.
It is possible to change.
It starts with you. Commit to doing something now that could turn your whole relationship around.
Don’t let discouragement and disappointment keep you from finally getting the support your relationship deserves.
Don’t throw it all away until you give it a fighting chance, guided by a professional.
Restoring your relationship is within reach.
Couples therapy offers a safe and supportive place for you to sort things out and regain a sense of control over the direction of your relationship.
I have solutions to get you started right away that will educate and empower you to begin using immediately .
I use research-based principles and will walk you through how to apply them to improve your interactions.
My clients often feel more hopeful and report positive changes within just a few weeks.
Renew and Reconnect!
You can have love, intimacy, and friendship again.
Your relationship is worth it!
Call me today at (209) 226-5391.